Hello everyone and welcome to my weekly ROMANCE SPOTLIGHT! Lori from Always Learning is here to share some insights on dating your husband. Make sure to stop by her blog and say hi!
Take it away Lori!
We were encouraged before we got married
to go on a date once a week with each other even after we got married. We were
faithful about doing this the first several years of marriage, but usually ended
up fighting. Since the dates weren't that much fun, we
stopped.
Nothing is fun to do with your spouse
when you don't like each other. But guess what, almost
everything is fun to do with them when you enjoy each other. We had to learn to
enjoy each other and be friends. The single most important thing to becoming
friends is to treat each other like a friend.
I was, unfortunately, treating Ken like
most women treat their husbands. He was constantly irritating me and not
behaving like I wanted him to behave. I became his mother somehow and he became
my son that I needed to train and discipline.
I see this over and over again in
marriages. Men don't want a mother or a competitor, they want a wife
~
They want that woman they fell in love
with.
That women they had fun with and that laughed at
his jokes.
That listened to him when he talked and
found him interesting.
He wants a wife that loves him just the
way that he is with all his faults and bad habits. THEN life becomes one long
date. Ken and I have fun together now whether we walk around the neighborhood,
go to church together, go out for breakfast, or I drive him to the airport in
the wee hours of the morning for him to catch a plane for a business
trip.
We no longer argue during drives in the
car, when he calls me on the phone, or when we take a walk together. We are
friends. Friends at last...Every day is like we are dating now. You don't have
to be rich to date. You just have to decide to love each other just the way you
are and treat each other with the same respect and kindness you would treat a
friend, except flirt a lot more with your husband than you would with a
friend!
Dating for life is fun! I highly
recommend it.
Let your fountain be blessed: and rejoice
with the wife of your youth.
Proverbs 5:18
Thanks so much Lori! Loved it!
See you next Tuesday for another ROMANCE SPOTLIGHT!
Happy Dating!